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Thursday, January 15, 2009

You never know where you're going to find a kindred spirit

Bill, my all-round helper, builder, and stove installer, is an acquaintance of several years. We worked together for a local landlord--Bill doing maintenance and I running the office--and I realized very quickly that there wasn't much he couldn't do. We must be very nearly the same age, though his children are much younger than mine, but he reminded me powerfully of my father--one of those men who sees what needs to be done and just does it, whether it's mechanical, electrical, automotive, or building something. And I think he appreciated me too--I ran into him one day after I left the company and he said a bit wistfully, "That was a good place to work when you were there." That's about as nice a compliment as I've ever had.

But in the six or seven years now that I've known him, I've never really had a chance to spend any extended time with him. We've talked off and on about what I'm doing with the property--his helper joked once that "Everyone else is going forward, but Liz is going backward"--and Billy said, "She knows what she's doing." But our conversations have mostly consisted of, "What would you think about putting a concrete pad at the end of the wheelchair ramp?" and "Yes, you're welcome to use my table saw to rip the molding for the porch--don't bother to haul yours over here."

Today we went down to Greensboro to look at a wood cookstove advertised for sale. I know next to nothing about wood cookstoves, while Bill--though claiming he was no expert--had at least grown up with one. So I had asked him if he would go along with me to look at it and offer his advice. The stove turned out to be a piece of junk (even I could see that much), but the conversation down there and back was invaluable.

I said I hoped he was going to have a garden this year, and that his wife liked to can and freeze. "I do all the canning," he said, "but I try to dry most everything--that's even better than canning." And away we went, from discussions of how to can a big batch at a time (sit a #2 washtub on concrete blocks, build a fire underneath it, and separate the jars with towels) to global warming ("I don't know a whole lot about that, but I watch all those tv shows on the climate, and something sure is going on") to pastured meat (turns out he got a side of beef from the same place my milk, eggs and meat come from).

I asked if he had ever used a scythe, and he nodded. "We grew wheat when I was little, and that's what we cut it with." I mentioned that I had thought about sowing some of the wheat I have, and seeing how it would grow. "You have wheat?" he asked, obviously surprised. I told him that I grind it to make flour for bread, and that if he wanted, I would show him the mill when we got back to the house. He definitely wanted.

So I took it out, connected it to the Bosch mixer, dumped a handful of wheat kernels into the hopper and turned it on. "Well, look at that," Billy whispered. "I gotta have one of those." At the door, he turned to me and said, "I got first prize for my bread when I was in high school. I entered it in the county fair and won first prize."

You have to love a guy who can fix a car, a lawnmower, a well pump or a lamp with equal facility, and knows how to make bread too. His family just got added to the "people you want to make sure get through the bad times" category.
posted by Liz @ 2:46 PM     |


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