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This site is a member of WebRing. To browse visit here. Saturday, August 19, 2006 The Horrible Summer I think that's what I'm going to call the last three months. We seem to be coming out of it finally. Clarence is home from two weeks in the hospital and almost four weeks in a nursing home for "rehabilitation." Every time he leaves the hospital, he is less able to manage things for himself, and whatever rehab he got in the nursing home didn't help him get back to where he was before the hospitalization. He can no longer walk even from the bedroom to the bathroom without assistance, nor take his medications by himself. And he came home with two huge bags of meds, twenty-one different things in all. I think he was grossly over-medicated in the nursing home, but there isn't much I can do until his own doctor can see him again. With that many different meds, administered at different times during the day, it's hard enough for me to keep up with them. So Clarence is going to have to go with me whenever I'm away from home from now on unless I have someone else here to stay with him. That was just what I needed.On a happier note, I did finally get my car, photo below. It took an entire day in the dealer's showroom, with Clarence--just retrieved from the nursing home--having to be wheeled down a steep hill outside and in through one of the service bays to the lower level restrooms every time he wanted to use the bathroom. And of course it took the usual round of haggling with the salesman and the sales manager. They insist that they have almost no markup on the Yaris and wouldn't budge from the sticker price, but I did get a couple of concessions, including moving my satellite radio antenna and power cord from the Daewoo to the new car, so I don't have to take the Yaris to a car audio place and pay through the nose to get it done. Then they wrote up the contract with everything under the sun financed on it. Extended warranty, sales tax, license and registration--you name it, anything they could include was in there. I spent the last ten minutes telling them to "Take that off and see how much the payment comes down" and managed to trim $50 a month off. Why on earth would anyone finance their sales tax? It made a $25 dollar difference in the monthly payment just to pay that up front. I'd have paid that sales tax five times over in interest if I had let them keep it in the financed amount.But I finally drove out with the car, and I love it. We went up the mountain to do an inspection after we left the dealership, a good test for the car on a steep winding road, and it handled wonderfully. The Yaris has a long wheelbase for its overall length, and it took those curves and switchbacks without any trouble at all. I was also concerned about whether it had enough engine reserve to handle cruise control in fifth gear, but it did just fine. Once I was back down the mountain, I engaged the cruise control and never had to shift at all until I slowed down for my driveway. Now I have to find someone to go over to the dealership with me and drive the poor old Daewoo back, since I'm keeping it. I'll eventually fix the many little things that are wrong with it, and it will be an adequate car for Kate when she is able to move down here.And now I need to drive the truck to the dump with its two month load of garbage bags before they close at noon. Clarence can't go with me for that, because he can't get up into the truck, so I hope I'm not going to come home to find him on the floor again. posted by Liz @ 8:21 AM | The template is set to display 10 posts. To see all the posts for this month, click on the month name in the Archive section RSS Feed PERSONAL Send email toliz at life-as-a-spectator-sport.com Home I'm a mother, grandmother, a computer professional, Democrat, Christian. I welcome politely worded comments and email, my spam filter throws the rest away, so don't bother to flame me WHY 'LIFE AS A SPECTATOR SPORT' "If you're lucky not to live in the gutters of a slum, but still can't afford to take vacations in the Alps, you're part of that enormous middle class who lives life through the medium of the television, further separated from "real" life by air conditioner, by automobile, by dishwasher, microwave and ice-in-the-door refrigerator, by automatic washer and dryer, and all the other appliances and conveniences that make it possible for America to live life at second hand. I'm not sure why Americans decided that televised drama was better than the real thing, that cardboard microwave food containers were an adequate substitute for real dishes, and their contents for real food, or that cooking, dishwashing and face-to-face conversation wasn't worth the effort and time it required. Someone fed this nation a plastic crate of out-of-season tomatoes and told us it was life and we took them at their word, and we're so much the poorer for it that it's hard to know where to start to list the shortcomings." I wrote this a couple of years ago, but I have to admit it's much less amusing than I thought it would be to see the artifical construct falling apart. 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I think that's what I'm going to call the last three months. We seem to be coming out of it finally. Clarence is home from two weeks in the hospital and almost four weeks in a nursing home for "rehabilitation." Every time he leaves the hospital, he is less able to manage things for himself, and whatever rehab he got in the nursing home didn't help him get back to where he was before the hospitalization. He can no longer walk even from the bedroom to the bathroom without assistance, nor take his medications by himself. And he came home with two huge bags of meds, twenty-one different things in all. I think he was grossly over-medicated in the nursing home, but there isn't much I can do until his own doctor can see him again. With that many different meds, administered at different times during the day, it's hard enough for me to keep up with them. So Clarence is going to have to go with me whenever I'm away from home from now on unless I have someone else here to stay with him. That was just what I needed.On a happier note, I did finally get my car, photo below. It took an entire day in the dealer's showroom, with Clarence--just retrieved from the nursing home--having to be wheeled down a steep hill outside and in through one of the service bays to the lower level restrooms every time he wanted to use the bathroom. And of course it took the usual round of haggling with the salesman and the sales manager. They insist that they have almost no markup on the Yaris and wouldn't budge from the sticker price, but I did get a couple of concessions, including moving my satellite radio antenna and power cord from the Daewoo to the new car, so I don't have to take the Yaris to a car audio place and pay through the nose to get it done. Then they wrote up the contract with everything under the sun financed on it. Extended warranty, sales tax, license and registration--you name it, anything they could include was in there. I spent the last ten minutes telling them to "Take that off and see how much the payment comes down" and managed to trim $50 a month off. Why on earth would anyone finance their sales tax? It made a $25 dollar difference in the monthly payment just to pay that up front. I'd have paid that sales tax five times over in interest if I had let them keep it in the financed amount.But I finally drove out with the car, and I love it. We went up the mountain to do an inspection after we left the dealership, a good test for the car on a steep winding road, and it handled wonderfully. The Yaris has a long wheelbase for its overall length, and it took those curves and switchbacks without any trouble at all. I was also concerned about whether it had enough engine reserve to handle cruise control in fifth gear, but it did just fine. Once I was back down the mountain, I engaged the cruise control and never had to shift at all until I slowed down for my driveway. Now I have to find someone to go over to the dealership with me and drive the poor old Daewoo back, since I'm keeping it. I'll eventually fix the many little things that are wrong with it, and it will be an adequate car for Kate when she is able to move down here.And now I need to drive the truck to the dump with its two month load of garbage bags before they close at noon. Clarence can't go with me for that, because he can't get up into the truck, so I hope I'm not going to come home to find him on the floor again.
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WHY 'LIFE AS A SPECTATOR SPORT'
"If you're lucky not to live in the gutters of a slum, but still can't afford to take vacations in the Alps, you're part of that enormous middle class who lives life through the medium of the television, further separated from "real" life by air conditioner, by automobile, by dishwasher, microwave and ice-in-the-door refrigerator, by automatic washer and dryer, and all the other appliances and conveniences that make it possible for America to live life at second hand. I'm not sure why Americans decided that televised drama was better than the real thing, that cardboard microwave food containers were an adequate substitute for real dishes, and their contents for real food, or that cooking, dishwashing and face-to-face conversation wasn't worth the effort and time it required. Someone fed this nation a plastic crate of out-of-season tomatoes and told us it was life and we took them at their word, and we're so much the poorer for it that it's hard to know where to start to list the shortcomings." I wrote this a couple of years ago, but I have to admit it's much less amusing than I thought it would be to see the artifical construct falling apart.
THE NON-ELECTRIC HOME
Cleaning, 1 Cleaning, 2 Cleaning, 3
KNITTING BLOGS
Extravayarnza Knitting Heretic Mind of Winter Pie Knits Persistent Illusion See Eunny Knit The Keyboard Biologist Taleweaver's Ramblings TECHnitting Wendy Knits
FINISHED PROJECTS
SELF-RELIANCE AND THE FUTURE
POLITICAL BLOGS and SITES
BOOKS I'M READING
How to Grow More Vegetables, etc. Small Scale Grain Raising
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