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Saturday, April 03, 2004

Whew! The end of a long day at the end of a very long week in which I've been from one end of Virginia to the other, with brief forays into North Carolina to pick up parts from my distributor in Greensboro. Next week is going to be a repeat of this one, I'm afraid. On the nights when I've been home at all, I dragged in around midnight and fell into bed without ever turning the computer on. Tomorrow, I have to finish up the paperwork for all the jobs that are due next week, and at some point, do some laundry. So much for political blogging.

I did have one odd experience this week, the most hostile store owner I've ever encountered. I didn't feel personally threatened by him—no subliminal sense that he might suddenly go ballistic and bash me or anything like that, just irritated that I had to listen to his ranting for the better part of half an hour.

He'd been in business for 25 years, he informed me, and no one had ever felt it necessary to inspect his store before. I smiled and said that probably meant he hadn't caused any problems. Nor, he said (paying no attention to my attempt to be diplomatic), had he been notified that he had to re-apply to participate in the Food Stamp program. I explained for about the sixth time that he wasn't being required to re-apply, that the law required every store to be inspected at intervals, that it was entirely routine, yada yada. Far as I could tell, it went in one ear and out the other without much pause along the way.

He and the poor cashier, who looked as though she would just as soon have been somewhere else, both had to pore over my badge, squinting at the picture and then at me to make sure we looked like each other. Why had I come all the way from Georgia, he demanded, when he read the company address on the badge—implying, I suppose, that such a trip would be a waste of his taxes. I explained that the prime contractor was in Georgia—I lived in Virginia just like he did. That shut him up for a minute or two, until he realized that I was observing non-food items as well as food, and off he went again wanting to know why I was "looking at things you can't even buy with food stamps!" I patiently explained that some of the information I collected was for demographic purposes, and added "Statistics," when it wasn't obvious that he knew what "demographic" meant. He wasn't impressed.

We finally parted company, with great relief on my part and continued muttering on his. He followed me out of the store and stood there watching as I drove away, taking note, I imagine, of my license plate number.

The strange thing is that his store was well-stocked, brightly-lit, clean and entirely unremarkable. The few times I've run into this kind of attitude before was in a store where the owner had reason to be defensive or hostile, but nothing that I saw here would have generated any kind of negative comment from me.

The weather cooperated, at least. It was one of the few days this week when we had neither rain nor snow, though there was plenty of wind to make up for the lack of precipitation. I drove wearily back through the Mennonite farm country west of Harrisonburg, soaking up the rural peace gratefully (along with a definite odeur de cow-pattie). In spite of encroaching new construction, most of this area still consists of large farms, with their century-old boxy white farmhouses, enormous barns and silos, and hillsides full of cows. Signs warn drivers to watch out for buggies, and on the street signs and mailboxes are the old familiar family names: Miller, Berkholder, Hershberger, Kurtz, Beiler. A Beachy Amish woman in dark dress and cap rode her bicycle along the highway, with a merry smile for me when she saw me smiling at her. If I hadn't needed to get on home, it would have been very tempting to just drive around for a while, but the pile of paperwork beckoned and I dutifully made my way back to the interstate. But I did reward myself for my good works by stopping at my very favorite of all time yarn stores, Orchardside Yarn Shop in Raphine, to buy more of the luscious Plymouth bamboo needles and some variegated cotton yarn that can be used as is for DK weight patterns, and separated into strands for fingering yarn. I have baby overalls and coordinating socks in mind . . .

Tomorrow Nick and I will make another stab at cleaning up the back yard. The contractor who will be doing the driveway improvements is also going to grade the front and back yards, and I must have the clothesline, the lawn mower and various pots of things out of his way. My level of enthusiasm for anything but sleep is next thing to non-existent and I can't imagine when I'm going to knit.
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